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Sexual Vocabulary to Throw Away Immediately

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Sexual Vocabulary to Throw Away Immediately

 Kick these unsexy phrases to the curb. Photo: James Fitzgerald When it comes to a little dirty talk between two consenting adults, not much is off limits. However, if you believe that the language we use shapes the way we think, much of the sexual vocabulary we pick up from mass media and porn is undoubtedly harmful. Academics have been researching the connection between porn and respect for women since the ’70s. Many of the behaviors that we see in porn have made their way into the mainstream media, and our bedrooms. As the internet exploded the porn industry and...

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The Art of Mutual Pleasure: How to Orgasm Together

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The Art of Mutual Pleasure: How to Orgasm Together

A guide for chasing those elusive twin peaks.  Photo: Eyesplash. For some, there’s nothing hotter in the bedroom than making their partner feel good and delaying their own satisfaction. Others are selfish lovers, and anyone who’s encountered that particular breed knows their shortcomings all too well — pun intended. In the middle of these extremes is the ideal of truly equal, mutual pleasure. The ultimate symbol of mutual pleasure? The elusive simultaneous orgasm. Coming at the same time is a dubious proposal at best, despite the persistent trope of “Yes, yes, YES!”-ing couples on big and small screens “arriving” together....

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How Long Should It Take to Orgasm?

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How Long Should It Take to Orgasm?

Author: Missy D.   Sex is a part of life that can't be beat. There is nothing quite like the thrill you get from the quivering of your loins and that so-sweet orgasm. Though I use vibrators and other sex toys to bring myself to orgasm, I still struggle with how long it takes me to reach that point. Exciting My Own Clitoris I know that one of the quickest ways for me to reach orgasm is to start by getting my clitoris as excited as the rest of me is. All it takes is sticking my finger in just...

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